Dear Ms. Ha Anh!
I am 30 years old this year, good-looking, dynamic, youthful and unmarried. I am currently working as a worker in a company quite far from home so I have to rent a room. In the company, I am close friends with a woman 10 years older than me. She is married but her marriage is not happy. Her husband often drinks, gambles, and treats his wife badly. Every time her husband abuses her, she often calls me to confide in me. From sympathy and pity for her situation, we fell in love without realizing it. From then on, we often dated and went beyond the limit. Even though she knew it was wrong, her feelings for me grew more and more. She said she would leave her husband to be with me, but she has not made a decision yet.
Recently, my parents have been urging me to get married but I am not ready. I have kept my relationship a secret from them because I am afraid of being forbidden. I am wondering whether I should continue this relationship or stop it. Because if I continue, I will make my sister suffer if my husband finds out. Now I am in a relationship that I should not have but I cannot stop it. I really hope to receive your advice.
Q.D ( Loc Ninh)
Dear Q.D!
I am a young person, good-looking, active and emotional. With these advantages, I will have many choices of girlfriends to build a happy couple. However, I am involved in an improper relationship with a married woman. This relationship is quite complicated, has many risks and will encounter many difficulties and scandals in life. The story that she has an unhappy marriage, an abusive husband, and gambles, all of which I cannot verify.
She feels comforted and encouraged when you are by her side when she is weak. From there, it is understandable that feelings arise. Your feelings for her may stem from pity, sympathy and the pain in life. That is not necessarily the foundation for a lasting love for the two of you to get married, so you need to consider carefully. This relationship not only makes you always worried but also causes both of you to be deeply hurt if it is discovered or continues without a way out.
She is not divorced yet, you should think carefully about your current relationship. Are you ready to face the potential consequences of continuing this relationship? If it does not bring good things to both of you, you should stop before it is too late. People often say "a needle hidden in a bag will eventually come out". Therefore, do not lose the opportunity to find a pure, healthy love because of unclear feelings.
If you are not ready to get married, please confide in your parents so they understand and do not put pressure on you. I believe that you deserve true love and a happy life, not unnecessary trade-offs and sacrifices. Because true love is when both are free, ready and built on a foundation of respect and honesty. I wish you a wise choice and find the happiness you deserve.
Ha Anh
Source: https://baobinhphuoc.com.vn/news/9/173720/hay-tinh-tao-khi-yeu
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