Artist's secret to keeping the family fire burning

(PLVN) - In modern society, being famous not only brings admiration but also puts invisible pressure on artists. The overwhelming workload, busy filming and performing schedules can easily cause family life to fall apart. However, there are many artist couples who still overcome challenges and build a solid home. They are proof that, despite being busy, there is still a secret to "keeping the fire" of love and taking care of the family.

The stage's glory closes behind the family door

The couple People's Artist Lan Huong (Huong "Bong") - Meritorious Artist Do Ky is the most ideal couple in the art world. They studied in the same actor training course, came to the Vietnam Drama Theater together, got married in 1988 and have been husband and wife warmly until today. They have been husband and wife for 40 years and still "respect each other as newlyweds". Talking about their sweet love story on a talk show, Meritorious Artist Do Ky said that the two studied in the same course at the Vietnam Drama Theater, then from friendship blossomed into love without realizing it. His first impression of his wife was that she was very good to everyone, sacrificing herself for work, family, and friends. Their love has endured over time and is wrapped in two words: peace because the people involved know how to sacrifice for each other. Living in the subsidy period, with artists' salaries being low, the couple Lan Huong - Do Ky went through difficult years together. They are diligent, hard-working with cutting fabric, embroidering, sewing, trading in processed goods, repairing machines, transporting goods for hire, loading and unloading at the wharf, bus station... without being afraid of any job. Any job that makes money and is within their capacity, they accept. Every night, on stage, they strive for each role, but during the day, no one realizes that actress Lan Huong has to go to the market, and Do Ky works as a porter... People's Artist Lan Huong confided: "Really, up to this moment, we are both husband and wife, friends, colleagues, and still like people in love. People are only truly happy when they have faith in their partner, but loving without trust, living together with suspicion is no different from "hell on earth". I still think that earning money is very important, but women also need to learn how to be wives and mothers because in my opinion, this is a sustainable foundation. Having a warm and happy family will motivate you to do much greater things." They are now grandparents with their children and grandchildren. People's Artist Lan Huong once shared that she was lucky to have met a gentle "other half" who knows how to support and help his wife, always understanding and sympathizing with his wife's work. "Every time I go to perform and Mr. Ky is at home, I feel very secure because Mr. Ky can do everything. In addition to taking care of the children, Mr. Ky also takes care of my elderly parents because I live in a family of four generations," People's Artist Lan Huong added.

At the age of 50, diva My Linh has a successful career and a happy married life with musician Anh Quan and their children. This is the dream of many women. Shedding her glamorous appearance on stage, My Linh is usually gentle and extremely feminine. Happiness filled the diva's eyes when she shared about her small family. For many people, the important thing may be money, fame... but for My Linh, she chose family life.

Simple happiness of People's Artist Lan Huong and Meritorious Artist Do Ky.

“Having a lot of money, a brilliant career, but having a family is zero, also means you have nothing. I put my family first and because I have a family, I find balance. My Linh shared that to “keep the fire” in her marriage and keep her family warm, no matter how busy her work is, every day she sets aside some private time for her husband - musician Anh Quan and her children. She confided: “I always try to balance my daily concerns so that in addition to the times I focus on work, I always have private time just for my husband and children. Prioritize each moment - a small secret, but My Linh believes it is extremely useful for anyone in the busy pace of modern life! When she comes home, she removes all her makeup, there will be no more Diva but a wife, a mother with a bare face with wrinkles, freckles and all her energy devoted to building a warm family. She likes to clean and decorate the house, likes to take care of flowers in the garden with her husband and children. All the glory is behind the simplicity of the house. After more than 30 years of singing, she still maintains the purity in her heart and in her voice. Because, more than anyone, she understands that is the result of a happy family.

If in the past, former model Thuy Hanh was very stubborn and strong-willed, then after getting married, this model has become gentle and profound. Thuy Hanh believes that if you want your family to last, you need to put aside your ego. After returning home, she and her husband, musician Minh Khang, both tried to put aside their outside work to spend all their time taking care of their children. She confided: "No matter how strong I am outside, when I come home, I am just a good cat in my husband's heart." This is also the secret to maintaining marital happiness after many years of marriage, because Thuy Hanh understands that family happiness is only sustainable when husband and wife know how to give in, know how to control their ego to get along with each other. Dividing the plan, allocating reasonable time for the family... are all based on the principle of supporting and passing the baton to each other. Thuy Hanh once said: "Khang is always the one who supports me in every big decision." The musician also revealed that the secret to maintaining his happy marriage is his ability to flatter his wife. Whenever his wife is angry, he uses music to calm her temper, singing a random song and saying it is a new song he composed for his wife.

Spread positive energy to your home

The family of male singer and director Ly Hai and Minh Ha has always been remembered by the public as one of the happiest families in the Vietnamese entertainment industry today. Minh Ha is 17 years younger than Ly Hai, the two met after filming a music video together. After more than 10 years together, Ly Hai - Minh Ha have four beautiful children: two boys, two girls. Since they were lovers, the two have grown up together through many career projects. Every time the actor and director appeared, Minh Ha was always there and in charge of livestreaming, taking care of her husband very thoughtfully. Few people know that most of Ly Hai's products were produced by his wife. They know the scale of each other's work, understand the sleepless nights on set, and the sadness of the epidemic... so they always give each other the calmness and necessary companionship.

Couple Thuy Hang - Minh Khang are always happy like the first days of love.

Despite being busy with family work, Ly Hai and Minh Ha still run their own company together and carry out many art and charity projects. Despite their busy schedules, when they have free time, they often take their children on trips to relieve stress.

Although they are a rich couple with huge assets, Ly Hai and Minh Ha have a very simple way of raising their children. The couple wants to train their children to be independent, to do everything on their own, and not to rely on their family or parents. Minh Ha once said: “Ly Hai really likes to teach his children survival skills rather than giving them money. Hai does not want to give them money to please them. I want to give them life skills so that when their parents are not around, they can still stand on their own two feet.”

All of these artist couples emphasize “understanding”. If you don’t put yourself in the other person’s shoes, your marriage will be easily criticized and suffocated. Artists also need their own space and passions, but they still find ways to share when things are difficult. They don’t wait for free time to care, but proactively schedule: weekends, birthdays, anniversaries for each other. When there is no time, they create it, like a family outing or a movie night.

Even though they are sometimes tough, they choose to let the other person know that they have shared their thoughts and decisions. Sincere statements like: “I understand what you need” or “I will listen to you” help keep the space for positive dialogue. No one can love another when they lose themselves. Most of them exercise, study more, do something for themselves. This not only keeps them young, but also spreads positive energy throughout the family.

The happy and fulfilled family of director Ly Hai - Minh Ha. (Photo in article: FBNV)

Children learn from their parents. Artists spend time teaching their children through actions: cooking, shopping, volunteering, helping others. Simple things are enough to create respectable personalities for the next generation.

For them, family happiness is not a matter of luck or predestination, but the result of effort. They do not put happiness in the moment of “rest”, but proactively create it. They do not stay silent when tired, but speak up to be exchanged. They do not let themselves be swept away by pressure, but always remind themselves of the reason for starting love and marriage.

Amidst the constant work, every moment together is turned into a catalyst for greater love. They understand, proactively spend time, and sincerely share with their loved ones. That is the formula for modern families, even though everyone is busy, to still have enough peace and happiness.

Bao Chau

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