This story is about a man from Wuzhou, Guangxi (China) when he and his family of 6 visited his married daughter in Xinyi, Guangdong for the first time.
The group of six people set out from Wuzhou. When they reached the center of Xinyi County, they had to walk a very long mountain road to reach the girl's house.
The way to the daughter's house made the man confused.
When he saw the house, the man was stunned. He could not imagine that his daughter was living in a mud house, built in the 1960s.
The front yard is also made entirely of dirt. When it rains, the yard becomes so muddy that people don't dare step outside.
The man stood outside for a long time before entering the house. After that, although his daughter and son-in-law treated him warmly, he still secretly shed tears at times.
The father and his family visited their daughter who married far away for the first time.
The story moved many people after it was published. "It is true that children follow the call of love, but when faced with their child's "thatched hut", which parent wouldn't feel sorry? I hope the girl will be happy and soon do well in business so that her parents can rest assured," one person commented.
Women who marry far away are at a disadvantage.
They say being born a woman is a disadvantage. You always have to live to please your husband's family.
Not only that, for parents, giving birth to a daughter is also extremely bitter. After years of caring for her, her daughter finally grows up and becomes "someone else's child". After marrying her off, they are always worried about whether their daughter will have a hard life, will she live happily or will her husband's family make things difficult for her?
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When they are young, women all think that they only need a husband to be happy because their parents cannot be by their side forever. That is the reason why they are willing to marry far away, regardless of their parents' advice. But then, after only a few years of marriage, busy with children and their husband's family, women always crave to come back and pamper their parents.
In the past, people thought that when they got married, they would want to visit their parents. But that's not true. Unmarried women are "princess" in their mother's house, but after getting married, many of them are like servants in their husband's house. Many poor husband's families even force their daughters-in-law to cut ties with their parents.
That's why we still boldly declare: "I must marry the person I love, whether he is far or near, it doesn't matter." Later, there are women who regret it when they miss their parents so much but can't visit them.
Women should not think that having a good husband means they will never have to worry about anything in their life. Marriage is unpredictable. In this world, only parents will love you unconditionally, without asking for anything in return.
As a woman, if you have the choice to marry someone close by, you should do it so that you can be close to your parents, be taken care of by them, and have the opportunity to take care of your parents. Don’t wait until the storm hits and life pushes you to the brink to realize the happiness of marrying someone close by.
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