Amidst the modern cycle, there are still families that preserve happiness through love, sharing and respect for traditional values, typically the family of Mr. An Xuan Muoi in Chi Minh commune (Khoai Chau).
Mr. Muoi’s family currently lives with three generations: an almost 100-year-old grandmother, he and his wife, and their 18-year-old son. Despite his busy work schedule, Mr. Muoi is still praised by locals as a filial son, a caring husband, and an exemplary father. Every day, he spends time taking care of his elderly mother, sharing housework with his wife, and accompanying his children in their studies and future orientation. In that warm home, every member feels the sincere care, respect, and love.
Mr. Muoi said: No matter how busy work is, the whole family tries to have dinner together in the evening. I always think that when parents live exemplary lives, their children will naturally follow suit. Each meal, each greeting is a bond that brings family members closer together.
In addition, many families today are facing the reality of “each person has a device, each person has a separate world ”. Mrs. Nguyen Thi Thi Hoi in Quang Vinh commune (An Thi) sighed: My children go to work and school all day. The whole family of 6 people but dinner is divided into three times, each person at a different time.
Ms. Hoang Thi Ly, currently an accountant at a company in An Thi district, shares the same concern. Ms. Ly confided: I come home late from work, and sometimes my child is already asleep. My husband also often brings work home to do. All of my child's schoolwork and meals are left to the grandparents. This makes the bond between family members looser.
The loss of family connection is a result of modern life, work pressure, and especially the influence of technological devices. Many families are gradually lacking shared meals and shared stories, which are the foundation for nurturing emotions and attachment.
According to Coach (coach) Tue An, an expert in emotional healing and family bonding, affirms: The benefits of technology cannot be denied, but if abused, it will cause members to distance themselves from each other. There should be conventions for reasonable use of devices, spending quality time with the family such as eating together, chatting, and doing activities together to create a lasting bond.
Many families have proactively adjusted to preserve happiness. Ms. Nguyen Thi Huong in Lac Hong commune (Van Lam) shared: Despite being busy, my husband and I always agree to take care of our children and support each other with housework. We maintain the principle of not using the phone during meals and always set aside at least one evening a week for the whole family to watch movies or read books together.
In fact, to build a happy family in the digital age, it takes not only love but also effort and awareness from each member. Let’s start with simple things: a meal without phones, a sincere thank you, a listening look…
In the digital age, even though the whole world opens up with just a few operations on a smartphone, family is still a peaceful haven, the nucleus of society. Put aside the hustle and bustle of work, temporarily disconnect from the virtual world to live fully with your loved ones. Because family happiness does not come from technology, but from sincere connection, from affection nurtured every day.
Source: https://baohungyen.vn/giu-lua-yeu-thuong-trong-gia-dinh-thoi-dai-4-0-3182107.html
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