'When life gives you an orange'

(PLVN) - "When life gives you a tangerine" is the name of a recent hit movie about a mother's life told by her daughter. She is a resilient, simple mother who has gone through all the pain in life, but what remains are the good values ​​in life...

1. In the past 30 years, the rate of women getting married late in Asia has increased 6 times. In the US and UK, the rate of women getting married after the age of 35 is 20%. In Taiwan (China), this number has reached 40%... In Vietnam alone, the average age of marriage for women is 26.4 years old, while just a few years ago people were busy worrying about early marriage, worrying about stopping illegal weddings of brides under 18 years old. These are girls over the age of 22 but not interested in love; they believe in the truth of "staying single to grow fat"; they like to do everything alone, go out alone, drink coffee alone, shop alone, watch movies alone, go to bookstores alone, eat alone, sleep alone, travel alone... love themselves, love their work, consider loneliness to be completely normal.

Besides the young girls who no longer have the obsession of "coming of age" to settle down and be considered complete, they can now live their personal lives as they choose, when they have not yet seen the "prince" in their hearts appear. As for women who have gone through difficult times in many ways, they can find peace, happiness... alone but not lonely...

Life, each day comes and goes, but in fact it is not long. Each day, we will meet different people and at each stage of life, there will be people who will become perfect pieces, or just moments like rainbows in the rain, sparkling but not forever...

People say that there are two people you must meet in life: one who makes time amazing, one who brings gentle years. The first person enters your life like a storm, making you infatuated and irresistible. They can turn brief moments into eternity, making your heart beat so fast that you can't hear anything else. But because they are so brilliant, they often don't stay. They leave a bright trail of light and then disappear, leaving scars that are hard to erase...

The second person comes quietly and silently. They don't make our hearts burn immediately, but they turn ordinary days into happiness. They listen patiently, stay patiently. And it is that person, with kindness and steadfastness, who makes our lives easier and more peaceful. Between the two of them, time will give us the answer, what is really important? Is it a burning but easily extinguished love, or a gentle and lasting love?...

2. Ernest Hemingway once said: “The most beautiful people we meet in life are those who have walked through fire.” They have faced failure, endured pain, struggled with adversity and experienced loss in ways most of us can hardly imagine.

Perhaps what makes them special is that they have gone through their own storms. And from that, they know how to appreciate life in a way that those who have not experienced suffering will find hard to understand. A gentle strength arises from the understanding that everything is impermanent, that every difficulty carries a lesson. Their hearts are full of love, not only for others, but also for themselves, a love that is forged in the red fire of challenge. Because they know the feeling of being hurt, the feeling of being lost. Despite all the suffering, they still stand up, stronger and more understanding. It is the journey in the dark that has tempered their hearts with a rare sensitivity. Because they have suffered, they have an extraordinary capacity for empathy.

You will find in them, the quietness, the humor and the warmth. Their hearts are full of love, not only for others, but also for themselves, a love that has been tempered through the egos of life. Because she has gone through days without a comforting hand. She has learned to wipe her own tears, solve her own problems and find her own peaceful path.

A woman who is not afraid of loneliness will not accept petty feelings, fickleness or half-hearted love. For women who have walked through fire, they are no longer afraid of loneliness or loss. They know how to comfort themselves, find joy and peace. They understand that true love is not a miracle to fill the wounds. They do not need promises in the wind or temporary gestures, because they have gone through enough storms to understand that true love is not just words... Women like that, they do not seek salvation. And once she realizes that you are not worthy of the love she can give, she will not blame, not be angry, just quietly leave, as if she had never been radiant. A woman who is not afraid of loneliness, leaving is just a step back to peace. Because she is strong and warm enough, gentle and tolerant enough, for the rest. Each person seems to have made choices for the paths that they find peaceful and happy. Life for them will always be beautiful, the good beliefs will still be there, as if there had never been stormy days...

Mien Thao

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